After enlisting in the U.S. military against his family’s wishes, Chicago native Tom Amenta said he found himself in the “middle of nowhere,” Afghanistan, in 2002 as an Army ranger in a remote area some 15 minutes from the border with Pakistan. He was fighting the initial battles of a war that few knew would stretch on for 20 years.
Now 40 and retired from the military, he felt anger foam inside as he watched the evening news on Thursday while on a work trip to Pennsylvania.
Headline after headline broadcast the latest gains by Taliban fighters, who have seized control of more than a dozen of the country’s provincial capitals as the Afghan government inches closer to collapse in the final days of the U.S. withdrawal. He was riveted in horror by news of fighters committing suspected war crimes against civilians or Afghan troops.
Friends who had been killed there came to mind, including NFL star Pat Tillman. Fond memories of former Afghan colleagues, such as interpreters, who remained in the country and whose fates he didn’t know, also resurfaced.
“It makes me angry, really angry,” Amenta said of the U.S. withdrawal, lamenting the billions upon billions of dollars spent on the war effort. Not to mention the emotional, financial and human toll suffered by thousands of Americans who served or had sent their loved ones to fight in Afghanistan.
Afghanistan “has never had a clean solution. But now that it’s gotten hard, we’re just going to bounce? It doesn’t make it right,” he said in a phone interview.
Amenta is one of many veterans across the world voicing frustration over the Taliban’s faster-than-expected comeback, reflecting how deeply the conflict resonates throughout the world. Around four dozen countries have sent troops in support of the United States, which with 2,300 killed while serving, has spilled the most amount of blood in the war excluding Afghanistan itself.
Amenta recounted memories of Jay A. Blessing of Tacoma, a goofy friend and fellow Army ranger who used to put hot sauce on everything: “I mean, literally everything. He put hot sauce on ice cream.” Blessing was killed by an improvised bomb in 2003 in Asadabad, Afghanistan.
“I mean, why did my friend get blown up? For what?” said Amenta, who has recently spoken to nearly six dozen veterans from the post-9/11 wars to write a book that’s to be released next month.
In the United Kingdom, where at least 455 British lives were lost over the course of the war, Foreign Affairs Select Committee Chair Tom Tugendhat, who served in Afghanistan, tweeted: “If you think I’m taking the news from Afghanistan badly and personally, you’re right.”
Tugendhat said the withdrawal was “wasteful and unnecessary.” He said, “I’ve seen what it costs and what sacrifices are being thrown away.”
Tugendhat, in a BBC interview, said that withdrawing coalition support in the country had left its government exposed and weak. “We’ve pulled the rug from under them,” he said. “We’ve taken away their air support, we’ve taken away their logistics and we’ve said, ‘Go on then, let’s see how you do.’ “
Speaking from his home in Tuscan, Army veteran John Whalen sighed as reports came in that Kandahar, the second-largest Afghan city, had fallen to the Taliban.
“It’s just frustrating,” Whalen said over the phone. “We knew that this would happen. Now, all the people who went and served, are like, ‘Why did my friend die?’ “
“I ask that question, too,” Whalen said.
Whalen had two friends killed, just a dozen miles from Kandahar in 2010: Andrew Meari, of Plainfield, Illinois, and Jonathan Curtis of Belmont, Massachusetts.
The two were guarding an entry point at Combat Outpost Sanjaray. When they stopped a suspicious individual from entering the base, the individual detonated the explosives he had wired on himself, according to a report from the Associated Press.
“I like where I am right now. I’m doing good,” Whalen, now 34 and working as a cybersecurity consultant, told The Post. “But they’re dead,” he said of his friends.
“He was just a kid,” Whalen said of private first class Meari, who was 21 when he passed. “He was so motivated. He was just so excited to go out and live his life. But he got killed. And he didn’t get to live his life.” Curtis had an infant daughter at the time, Tessa-Marie.
“I’ve felt that there was this idea behind America. That America would make the world a better place,” he said. “But there are kids in Afghanistan that have only seen war during their lives,” said Whalen, who now has a seven-year-old son, Oliver. It doesn’t feel right, he added.
Former Army medic Frank Scott Novak, 44, said he has repeatedly heard a lingering sense of sadness from military friends who served in Afghanistan as developments continued to unfold. Novak served two tours in Iraq from 2004 to 2006.
“No one’s saying, ‘Hey , you know at least we did something.’ There’s just nothing to really show for it,” he said. “And so, everyone’s kind of angry and wondering, why? Why were we even there?”
Michelle Partington, the first ever woman to serve as a front line RAF paramedic, told Britain’s Channel 4 in an interview that she finds it unbearable to watch the country’s fall.
Partington suffers from post traumatic stress disorder following three deployments to Afghanistan, which she described as “a nightmare,” citing bomb blasts, injuries and widespread destruction. She told the broadcaster that upon return from the country she frequently considered taking her own life.
“My war is still ongoing,” she said, adding that she was unable to think about the present situation in Afghanistan “because it’ll take me back to my illness.”
Jeong Jangsoo, a retired South Korean army colonel, expressed a cocktail of emotions – none of them good – after learning that the Taliban was nearing Kabul on his way home during a Friday night in Seoul.
In Taliban militants’ biggest victories yet in their weeklong surge, local officials told The Washington Post on Friday that Afghan government troops have retreated from Kandahar, Herat and Lashkar Gah. Fighters are closing in on the national capital, heightening concern that the Afghan government will largely collapse and leave Kabul the last island under its control.
Jeong commanded an approximate 300-person South Korean contingent in Afghanistan in 2007, when the Taliban had kidnapped a South Korean Christian group, ultimately killing two of them.
“I felt disappointment … a sense that all had been in vain, and thought, ‘So this is how it ends, huh,’ ” he said in a phone interview.