Obama visits Kenya this week for the first time as president, though he does not plan on visiting his late father’s village or gravesite.

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WASHINGTON — Barack Obama is defined in many ways by something he never really had: a father.

He quizzes golf partners and friends about their dads. He leans in when he talks with troubled teens about the absence of a father in his own life. The loss shapes his role as a father and drives him to try to help others escape what a close friend calls “the voids in your life.”

His late father thus looms large as Obama visits Kenya this week for the first time as president. He won’t visit the village where his father lived, according to the U.S. ambassador to Kenya, Robert Godec, but Obama’s father’s gravesite has been freshly decorated, just in case. And though a visit between Obama and his relatives is unlikely, his Kenyan father will be very much on his mind.

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Barack Obama Sr., the father Obama scarcely knew, was born in Kenya in 1936 and died there, mostly a stranger to his son, whom he left as a young child. But there’s little doubt that Obama has been indelibly shaped by the vacuum.

“It motivated him to want to do better,” said Valerie Jarrett, a close friend and Obama’s senior White House adviser. “His message to young people is: ‘You don’t have to be defined by the voids in your life.’ ”

Obama points to his father and his unrealized potential — he died at 46 — as a source of his ambition. “Every man is trying to either live up to his father’s expectations or make up for his father’s mistakes. And I suppose that may explain my particular malady,” he wrote in his 2006 book, “The Audacity of Hope.”

Now Obama returns to his father’s homeland, his ambition elevating his family in one generation from a tiny village in Kenya to the White House.

The elder Barack Obama came to the United States in 1960, part of a scholarship program to educate young Africans eager to slip the bonds of British colonial rule. He met Obama’s mother, Stanley Ann Dunham, a white woman from Kansas, at the University of Hawaii in 1960. They married and welcomed a son, born in Honolulu in August 1961.

The senior Obama left when the future president was 2, heading to Harvard University and then to Kenya. His son, raised by his mother and her parents in Hawaii and Indonesia, would see his father just once more, for a month. He was 10.

Brilliant but troubled, the elder Obama became an economist in Kenya, which gained independence in 1963. After early promise, his life “ended up being filled with disappointments,” the younger Obama has said. A descent into alcoholism ended with a fatal car crash in Nairobi in 1982.

Obama made his first pilgrimage to Kenya in 1987, seeking to reconcile his own racial identity as he searched for an understanding of his father.

Though his mother spoke positively of his father, Obama found his story more complicated. His father had children with several wives, was an alcoholic and a womanizer who “did not treat his children well,” Obama told Newsweek in 2008.

This week’s trip, built around the 2015 Global Entrepreneurship Summit in Nairobi, will be Obama’s fourth to the country. Expectations are considerable: The government plans to spend 1 million Kenyan shillings — about $16,000 — to spruce up his father’s and grandfather’s graves in the family’s village of Kogelo, a seven-hour drive from Nairobi, according to The Star newspaper.

“Kenyans don’t think of (Obama) as African American, they think of him as Kenyan American,” EJ Hogendoorn, deputy program director for Africa at the International Crisis Group, said at a Washington, D.C., briefing on Obama’s trip. “They think of him as Luo-American,” a reference to Obama’s father’s and grandfather’s tribal roots.

It’s unlikely Obama will meet with relatives who include aunts, uncles, stepsiblings and his Kenyan step-grandmother, Mama Sarah.

The third wife of Obama’s paternal grandfather, Mama Sarah, lives in Kogelo and has asked Obama to visit “to pay respect to his father’s grave,” AFP reported.

Though not related by blood, Obama called Mama Sarah “Granny” in the memoir that resulted from his first trip, “Dreams From My Father.” Published in 1995, the book would serve as a source for voters wanting to understand Obama’s heritage, and as fodder for conspiracy theorists who sought to portray Obama as foreign born.

Obama said a bit wistfully last week that visiting Kenya as a private citizen was “probably more meaningful to me than visiting as president, because I can actually get outside of the hotel room or a conference center.”

Obama said he hopes the visit, beyond being “symbolically important,” demonstrates that the U.S. sees itself as a partner with Kenya and other sub-Saharan countries.

He said he expects a focus on counterterrorism efforts as the Somalia-based terrorist group, al-Shabaab, continues to threaten Kenya and neighboring countries, including Ethiopia, where Obama also will visit.

Obama said he also plans to address corruption in Kenya, which ranks as one of the most corrupt countries in the world, placing 145 out of 175 on Transparency International’s corruption index. The U.S. wants to “continue to encourage democracy and the reduction of corruption inside that country that sometimes has held back this incredibly gifted and blessed country,” he said.

As president, Obama has spoken candidly about growing up without a father, saying he’s made an extra effort “to be a good dad for my own children.”

He’s admitted to drug use in high school and warned that children who grow up without a father are more likely to live in poverty, drop out of school, end up in prison or abuse drugs and alcohol.

“I say all this as someone who grew up without a father in my own life,” Obama said at a Father’s Day event at the White House in 2010, calling it “something that leaves a hole in a child’s life.”

Obama’s remarks on fatherhood and responsibility, often aimed at African Americans, have not always been well-received.

The Rev. Jesse Jackson charged in 2008 that Obama was “talking down” to African Americans. Essayist Ta-Nehisi Coates accused Obama in a 2013 Atlantic magazine piece of being tougher on black audiences than white, calling him “singularly the scold of ‘black America.’ ”

Obama makes no apologies. “I am a black man who grew up without a father and I know the cost that I paid for that,” he said in May at a poverty summit. “I also know that I have the capacity to break that cycle, and as a consequence, I think my daughters are better off.”